To hearts who deserve love:

Dear hearts,

Sometimes the only thing the another person is wanting is a distance, and things we focus on is the way to pamper them. But the thing is the situation is so different that your pamper is not their priority anymore and the only thing they want is detachment from you. You don’t get this point at that particular time. You dwell on your emotions, you are not even in your right condition, you don’t keep any love for yourselves and keep powering it to the next person, who just lets it to flow. They wont store it with them because they don’t want those emotions. I know it’s heartbreaking, but at that time you just keep surfing where did I go wrong. You want to initiate more like you care and you are there for them always. They are not in the state of accepting you and you are not in the state of accepting yourselves. You keep on searching ways to make them feel comfortable, ways to make them realise how much we love and care for them.

But dear all hearts, loving hearts,

Once a person make their mind that they don’t need you, I think they mean it. When you were wanting to pamper them like a child in that situation when they only want is a distance from you, that were the clear signs of they not wanting to be there, where we felt like things were going to be okay. Sometimes we take more time to accept, accept rejections and denial, because when our heart is wanting to love, may be somewhere we want to be loved the same way. It’s a heart after-all.

Take a deep breath, close your eyes and just make a reflection of what you have been doing and what they have been wanting. To those who are reading this, you deserve to be loved, but not this way. Pouring your love to someone who doesn’t want it, now you are empty and your love is just flown away. That love is for us, to give to ourselves when we need it the most. To keep us sane in our times, when we surrender in our emotions.

Remember, no matter how important a person or thing is to us, don’t make anyone your priority above yourselves. We make them our world, and once they are gone, our world is shattered, we need to recreate our world. We just give the next person all the authority for the rights to our emotions, like they decide how we are going to feel. We in this pace just loose ourselves. And isn’t this the hardest thing? In fear of loosing someone we don’t even realise, when we have just lost ourselves. And I know how it feels to be there. In search of being there for someone, always, we don’t get it how we have forgotten to be there for ourselves, and we have just been so empty. We are just a structure, where our soul, mind and heart are scattered within some other people. This is the different thing to experience.

My dear brave hearts out there, you are your biggest strength, remember the times you have fallen into pieces and picked all the pieces to create you. It’s beautiful to be in love, but not to scatter, tear and loose yourselves in love. Some people, no matter how hard you love, will never want you cause they are just not right for you. People who are right for you will never make you feel scared, insecure and fearful. You might have been giving all of yours to someone who don’t deserve it.

It takes time to realise. Realise that it’s just good to head into different direction and never leap back when they say I don’t feel for you. That won’t let you break yourselves more.

Every heart is beautiful, and they deserve to be loved. So do you♥️

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-Prasuma