Your hard days are shaping you!
Your suffering is your own learning:
People come and go. It’s life and it’s how the phenomenon is. In this journey we meet people, some come along with us and some change their paths. Sometimes we tend to pierce ourselves with someone’s emotions so deeply that their absence starts to haunt us.
We become vulnerable, we get lost. We just can’t accompany ourselves and days become harder. I can relate too!
At the end it’s us ( we ourselves) . People we meet, actions we do, our thoughts and emotions are just a part of our lives. They are not our lives. The phases of we being super happy or depressed some days doesn’t define the kind of human being we are. We are not machines, we have emotions, we tend to have good and bad days. Somedays are thoughtful where some are jolly. But sweetheart it’s just a phase of your life.
Don’t give anyone the authority to determine your mood. No one is as important as you are to yourselves. If you need to degrade your worth, your values and your emotions just to make someone stay and be there for you, this is going to harm you. Because right people would never make you wonder in your worst self, they will help you to get out of vain and give clarity to everything you are lost on.
Sometimes on expectations we just forget the difference with reality and we end up in thoughts that will keep us on loop. People who don’t want to be with you, let them go and live their life. Set them and yourselves free. Things meant for you will be yours, it’s just the matter of time. And not for you, will never be yours no matter how hard you try.
My favorite you-tuber, someone I take as an inspiration once said, express gratitude in everything and count your blessings. Even if there are 100 reasons to be sad, there are another 10000 reasons to be happy and thankful for, yeas♥️. I won’t say things will be easier in a day or in a week, we all are different so is our way of taking things. We all have our own sufferings, everyone is going through something indeed we all are moving along with it. It might take months or years, but trust me the intensity it has now of capturing your days, it won’t have after.
You are amazing the way you are. We don’t need to change for others, yeas what we can do is wider our way of thinking, calmer on the way of responding and touching lives of people who need us, for our self growth. Exploring your inner child and pampering to create the better version of yourselves with every passing day.
How blessed we are, that we woke up today and we are breathing! We never know what’s there for us, so let’s not procrastinate. The good and bad days are both our journey, and we own it with a grace. Two years before, how you were doesn’t define the person you are today but it totally relates to be the kind you are today.
What we have done, has been done, we can do nothing about that now. The best way to pamper yourselves is to forgive yourselves without carrying any guilts and regrets. To every emotions that were justified, or unjustified you have felt it and it has given you so much of understandings to the happenings. Sometimes we don’t get closure to many things, it’s okay. We tend to concern on issues that’s not even important and we let it ruin our day👱♀️
To my people, you have endured everything with courage till date, so what makes you think you can’t survive it again?
When we survive uncomfortabilities, we lead ourselves to the better phases. Don’t go too hard on your selves, healing needs time yeaa! Let’s suggest ourselves to not focus on thoughts that drain us. When we touch lives and listen to stories of people, I think we indirectly share lots of things and it helps a lot. I won’t determine anything as positive or negative, I would just say talk to people who make you feel good, do things that lifts your mood and listen to things that you can relate to, which you think can be a help to you.
Take care of yourselves, your family and your closed ones. Be kind to everyone and everything ❣️
Till then -Love love
-Prasuma☘️
