You are too skinny to get a jeans of your size or You are too fat to fit in jeans?
Questions on why! Suggestions to maintain your body, to gain or loose your muscles or unwanted advises on diet plans?
You walk on streets, and people stare you like you been in crimes since ages. You go to market to buy clothes, people slightly deny to pick your sizes. You go to restaurants, your relatives suggest you about appetite, your surrounding is sorry for you, feels pity on you, is so curious to know about your marriage or your relationship! What is all this?
Body shaming has been a creative form of spreading frustrations in the restless life of teenagers. We say the world is developing, the thoughts and conscience are getting healthier. But somewhere down the limitation, there exists this mental virus.
Let’s just take a minute and think, who wont want a perfect body, a perfect shape to fit in. Everybody is blessed and is different from each other. It has been a blunder that too skinny and too fat people are unhealthily ugly. This misconception of body shaming has made people go through depressions.
We are happy in our world, but as we step out there is no scarcity of criticism and comparison. The balanced sheet this society trynna put on us is insane. They are more tensed about us, than we are. This actually is body shaming.
Yeas, No matters how you look, fat or skinny, tall or short, all that matters is you to remain happy and healthy. You to love yourselves and stay motivated. If you are okay with what you are than kick out criticism and let their ass burn out in judgement. We know our story and only we know how hard are we trying. So, let go all these words that pinch you the most.
If you love yourself than only you can expect others to love you. Love yourself the way that people wont get ideas to criticize you and let you down.
I have gone through body shaming, you have gone through body shaming and many of us have. I also know this has taken a smile from our faces someday. But not again, I have grown strong enough. You don’t need to burn your ass thinking about me, I am there to love myself hard.
I would always suggest the best ways to deal with body shaming has always been to love yourself, it is no doubt the best cure.
My projections to world has always been to eradicate body shaming and make this democratic world a free place to live in. I can now no more handle this! Actually I am done. Let’s see how far will I go! Do you guys also think the same?